via Positive Lite, by Marc-André LeBlanc
"Past, present and future! In the past, going through particular
'slutty' phases, serodiscordant relationships, and 'party' phases could
definitely been safer with the addition of PrEP. The anxiety of near
misses and testing around those periods would also have been toned down
substantially. Presently, and moving forward I am considering PrEP as
another tool in my arsenal of safety that will also take away from
testing anxiety in the future, especially if I partake in occasional
high risk activities."
In this article, I focus on whether gay men involved in HIV could
ever imagine using PrEP. In my next article, I will focus on their
concerns and hopes for PrEP. This article presents gay men’s opinions
about PrEP. It does not claim to present facts about PrEP. As such,
factual errors might be included in the opinions expressed, so check out
the resources listed at the end of the article for more information
about PrEP.
These are all gay men that I know, so
they are mostly from Canada. Many people would have different answers, I
imagine—gay men in other countries, gay men who are not involved in
HIV, and people other than gay men. But since the guys I asked are more
likely than most to know about PrEP, I was curious to know their
thoughts.
I
was quite amazed at the response—half of the 60 people I approached
responded to my brief three question online survey, including 17
HIV-negative guys and 13 HIV-positive guys. I told them they could respond anonymously or let me know that they had responded to the
survey. Among the 30 guys who responded, 19 agreed to have their names
mentioned (see below). I have no way of knowing who wrote what unless
they included identifying information, which in any case I have removed
from this article.
Originally, I had grandiose plans of distilling their thoughts,
outlining the key themes that emerged, and using a couple of quotes here
and there to illustrate those themes. However, my plans changed once I
read the responses. These guys were so articulate; I decided the best
approach was to let them tell their stories in their own words. So this
article is almost entirely made up of quotes. As far as I’m concerned,
it reads like a storybook read to me by 30 guys I love and admire very
much. I hope you agree.
Here is what I asked, and how guys responded.
My question to HIV-positive guys: “If PrEP had been available when you were HIV-negative, do you think you would have taken it? Why? Why not?”
The guys who responded were evenly split—half said yes, half said no. A couple of guys didn’t know. In fact, a few guys said that thinking back, it was really hard to know whether or not they would have taken PrEP.
“Yes. It could have prevented me from becoming infected.”
“Probably yes, given some of the risky sex I was having at different periods in my life.”
“Since this was [over 20] years ago, I'm not sure. I was very successful with condom use at the time so I think it was a very different environment. If you changed the situation to today, I think (to the extent any long term survivor can imagine being HIV-negative) that I would use Truvada for PrEP periodically.”
“It is hard to look back and think ‘Oh, I would have done X or Y.’ How does anyone REALLY know? I would LIKE to think I would have considered it, especially since the time I seroconverted was in the context of a relationship where/when we stopped using condoms. We never discussed the fact that the condoms ‘disappeared’, but having had PrEP available, AND on my radar, it may have appealed to me—or at least gotten me thinking more about the absence of condoms from my sexual behaviour.”
Read the rest.